A True Story

“A Family Story – Why this photographer is so passionate about photography…”

A TRUE Story – One That Shows What Photography Can Really Mean

During our family session, I had my brother take this image of Danny and me. This was in December just before my surgery in Feb. I will always treasure this image of us and feel comforted that Danny will have it if anything happens to me. That is why I feel so strongly about having heirloom portraits created for everyone in your family.

I want to tell you a true story – one that actually brings me to tears every time I tell it. This is my life, my family, my story…

First, I need to set the scene and say that my mother believed in photography and made sure that my brother and I had formal portraits created when we were babies to two years old. I still have those black and whites of me and have them nicely framed in my bed room. But, it seemed we never had a family portrait created.

We never had a formal professional portrait created of my family.

About 15 years ago, my parents divorced after both my brother and I had been on our own. I knew it was coming and wondered what took so long for them to make the decision to part ways. I had prepared myself for this and even made our family get our one and only family portrait together several years before. It was a chain store type photograph. But, I cherish it because it has all of us in it. And one of my mom and dad together. I cherish that photograph especially since they are divorced now – it means the world to me.

…A crisis warned me to take action and have those images created.

Several years later, after moving to Florida and starting my own photography studio, my dad developed heart disease and had several emergencies that he pulled through just fine. But, he has a pace maker and I worried everyday that we didn’t have a professional portrait of my dad, brother and I. Since my mom and grandmother live in the same town as I do, when my brother came to visit, we created some wonderful images of all of us. So, I had this horrible feeling that I needed to get updated images of my dad, brother and me as soon as possible.

Something kept telling me to get those portraits created and not to wait.

Finally, in Christmas of 2002, my father and brother visited me and I took some family images. I cherished the memory of the moments that photographs were created even more. Those photographs are priceless. I can’t even imagine what it would be like not to have those photographs of my dad, brother and me and then some of mom, brother and me. They decorate my office and I look at them every single day – they are some of my most prized possessions.

Well, a month after that reunion, something happened that truly no one expected being the healthiest of all my family. I was rushed to the emergency room because of abnormal bleeding and severe pain. They found a tumor on my kidney and for several weeks we didn’t know if I had cancer or not. They removed my left kidney and we waited 4 days to find out if I had cancer. I finally found out that I was of the one percent that didn’t and all is well, but I was so thankful we had the opportunity to create those memories of our family. And spend time together. Even my mom and dad were able to be friends after all these years.

During that time all I could think of was how grateful I was that my family was together just weeks before. And we had photographs created together.

Life has a way of distracting us from what is truly important. And to me sharing time with those I love and having visual memories of them just confirmed what my mom always believed. That nothing is as timeless as a professional portrait of those you love.

That very story sums up the reason I became a photographer. Creating photographs that mean that much to people – I can’t imagine anything that would make me feel more fulfilled as an artist.

This Experience Confirmed To Me That The One Thing That Can Never Be Replaced – That We MUST Hold On To – Are The Memories We Share With Those We Love.

Life is so terribly short. But, at the same time, life is such a wonderful gift. And the memories we keep of these moments with our family will last forever.

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2 Responses to A True Story

  1. Ann Harlow says:

    Dear Tammy,
    I am so very very happy. Having just spoken to you a couple of hours ago, the information you provided allowed me to get in contact with Michelle. She has in her possession the portrait I was hoping to get back!
    I’ve gone thru most of the material on your website, including a few of the pet portraits. I hope to speak with you again regarding possibly having a formal one done of my little “Lady.”
    Thank you for all your help.
    Ann Harlow

  2. DaisyL says:

    I found your website browsing the internet. I can relate to the reason you became a photographer. I found a lump one day. My son was 1 and my daughter was 3. We had just celebrated our 16 year wedding anniversary. Can’t be cancer. I was wrong. Stage 3. Lymph nodes infected. Chances of survival? Not good. “A crisis warned me to take action and have those images created”. Four years later I am still doing what I fell in love with soon after that dismal diagnosis. I appreciate life, it’s short but wonderful. My chances of survival today? As my doctor says…sky high!!

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